On How It All Connects
It’s been more than a few days now since Fatema Khimji, 22-year-old graduate of Georgetown University passed away in a tragic car accident that took both her life and her fathers. Although I was not one of those fortunate enough to have spent four years with Fatema, I struggle to write this.
A month and a half ago Fatema was leaving messages on my Facebook wall, asking me when I’d be ready to hop over to Saxbys Coffee Shop. We were getting Mocha Frolattes. As we walked from Lauinger library to the corner of 35th and O street, we talked about life, marriage, graduation, and the good things to come.
A day or two later we were taking a stroll around the River Front in Georgetown. Fatema shared with me just some of the anxiety she was having over what to do with her life, while I stared back at her in avid fascination. She was an individual of remarkable accomplishment, and my mind puzzled how she could ever worry which of the many doors available to her was the right one to walk through.
I could never have imagined those final few encounters to be the last I would see of the beautiful, the bright, and the radiant, Fatema Khimji. I had mailed her an invitation to my wedding celebration. And I had half-expected her to show up.

If any good has come from an otherwise hopelessly tragic incident, it is in that everyone close to Fatema has become more conscious of the time we have left, and how well we use it. Insh’Allah she and her father are in a far better place. And Insh’Allah our prayers for her and her family are answered by the Almighty, Allah(SWT). May they rest in peace.
Innalillahi wa Innalillayhi Raji’oun. To God we Belong, and to God we Shall Return.
Sphere: Related ContentMohammed Suleiman Khan is a 26 year old recent law school grad who specialized in Corporate Law at Michigan State University College of Law. He dabbles in web design, community projects, computers, and poetry when time permits...which these days is hardly ever.
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Jessica
June 22nd, 2007 at 10:35 am
Fatema was a dear friend of mine and all of the girls at Our Lady of the Elms High School where we graduated in 2003. She was so special and always so much fun. We will miss her very much. Thanks for your nice words.
~Jess
June 22nd, 2007 at 5:24 pm
A great article on Fatema has been published by the Ohio news.
You can find it here:
http://tinyurl.com/3ygfpe
sophister
June 25th, 2007 at 8:27 pm
Salaam,
Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhe rajeeon,
May Allah bring her and her family and friends jannah.
Ameen
Dispoweb
September 23rd, 2007 at 2:47 am
hello,
It’s very tragic to lose some one :(
Inchallah she’ll be on paradise her and his father.
Ameen.
November 11th, 2007 at 9:45 pm
Ameen. Since I haved lived in the DC area I heard about this…
Inna li-lahi wa inna li-lahi rajioon.
To ALLAH(SWT) we belong and to HIM we return.
tasneem
November 25th, 2007 at 1:17 am
Thank you for the kind words. Now I know who the wedding invitation came from. Faiza and I wondered. Fatema would have loved the card.
suhana
April 27th, 2008 at 4:16 pm
I am muslim.thank you ALLAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!